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Resources · Films

Films that meet you

Let the film meet you where you are, not where you think you should be. Choose a title to read what other members have shared.

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  • A Monster Calls poster

    A Monster Calls

    Dir. J. A. Bayona

    For older children and the adults beside them.

  • Cloud Atlas poster

    Cloud Atlas

    Dir. The Wachowskis & Tom Tykwer

    Interconnected souls across lifetimes, carrying love, trauma, and redemption forward.

  • What Dreams May Come poster

    What Dreams May Come

    Dir. Vincent Ward

    A visually rich, spiritual exploration of love continuing beyond death.

Grief through the eyes of love & relationship

  • A Single Man poster

    A Single Man

    Dir. Tom Ford

    A hauntingly beautiful meditation on losing a life partner.

  • Hope Gap poster

    Hope Gap

    Dir. William Nicholson

    The grief of separation and family fracture.

  • Marriage Story poster

    Marriage Story

    Dir. Noah Baumbach

    Grief for a relationship that's ending rather than ended by death.

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    Truly, Madly, Deeply

    Dir. Anthony Minghella

    A tender, sometimes humorous look at grief when a partner dies — with a gentle supernatural element.

Afterlife, between worlds & continuing bonds

  • After Life poster

    After Life

    Dir. Hirokazu Kore-eda

    A quiet, philosophical film where souls choose one memory to carry into eternity.

  • Ghost poster

    Ghost

    Dir. Jerry Zucker

    A classic portrayal of love, unfinished business, and connection beyond death.

Losing someone you love & living with grief

  • Aftersun poster

    Aftersun

    Dir. Charlotte Wells (2022)

    A daughter's retrospective grief for a father she half-understood. Grief as memory work.

  • Blue Valentine poster

    Blue Valentine

    Dir. Derek Cianfrance

    Explores love, loss, and the grief of what once was.

  • Manchester by the Sea poster

    Manchester by the Sea

    Dir. Kenneth Lonergan

    A raw, honest portrayal of grief that doesn't resolve neatly — deeply human and validating.

  • Ordinary People poster

    Ordinary People

    Dir. Robert Redford

    A family fractured by loss struggles to communicate and heal.

  • Rabbit Hole poster

    Rabbit Hole

    Dir. John Cameron Mitchell

    A couple navigating life after the loss of a child; quiet, compassionate, and grounded.

  • Still Alice poster

    Still Alice

    Dir. Glatzer & Westmoreland

    Grief through anticipatory loss and identity change.

  • The Farewell poster

    The Farewell

    Dir. Lulu Wang (2019)

    A Chinese-American family confronting a grandmother's terminal diagnosis without telling her. Anticipatory grief through cultural difference.

  • Three Colours: Blue poster

    Three Colours: Blue

    Dir. Krzysztof Kieślowski

    A widow's first year. Grief as withdrawal and slow reawakening.

Gentle, reflective & spiritual films

  • Coco poster

    Coco

    Dir. Lee Unkrich & Adrian Molina

    A beautiful, child-friendly celebration of remembrance, ancestors, and love beyond death.

  • Departures poster

    Departures

    Dir. Yōjirō Takita

    Ritual, dignity, and the sacredness of caring for the dead.

  • Grave of the Fireflies poster

    Grave of the Fireflies

    Dir. Isao Takahata

    Profound grief, loss, and sibling love (emotionally intense).

  • Ikiru poster

    Ikiru

    Dir. Akira Kurosawa

    A meditation on mortality, meaning, and legacy.

South African voices

  • Inxeba (The Wound) poster

    Inxeba (The Wound)

    Dir. John Trengove (2017)

    Grief and masculinity in initiation rituals. Heavy, but landmark.

  • Yesterday poster

    Yesterday

    Dir. Darrell Roodt (2004)

    The first Zulu-language Oscar-nominated film — a woman dying of AIDS who wants to live long enough to see her daughter start school. Anticipatory grief, motherhood, terminal illness.

Grief in artistic and creative life

  • Iris poster

    Iris

    Dir. Richard Eyre

    The grief of watching a brilliant mind fade, and the love that endures through it.

  • Wonder Boys poster

    Wonder Boys

    Dir. Curtis Hanson

    Grief and messiness woven through the life of a writer unable to finish his book.

Past lives, fate & love across time

  • Past Lives poster

    Past Lives

    Dir. Celine Song

    A subtle, devastating meditation on soul connections, timing, and grief for the lives we don't live.

  • The Curious Case of Benjamin Button poster

    The Curious Case of Benjamin Button

    Dir. David Fincher

    Time, loss, and love moving in reverse.

  • The Fountain poster

    The Fountain

    Dir. Darren Aronofsky

    Love, death, and rebirth intertwined across centuries.

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