Grief is not yours alone. In every country, in every language, people have found ways to carry their dead, with candles, with food, with song, with silence. This map is a small reminder that whatever you are feeling tonight, somewhere in the world someone is lighting a light for the same reason.

- the Erin Foundation

The Whole World Grieves With You

Across every culture and century, people have found ways to keep loving those they’ve lost. Here are some of them — and what they might offer you.

A heart formed of people from all over the world
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Select a glowing marker to read how that part of the world remembers.

Wherever you are reading this from, and whatever you have lost, you are part of an unbroken human chorus of people who have loved and remembered. You grieve in good company.

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Offer a corner of the world

Is there a place, a people, or a way of remembering that belongs on this map? Tell us about it. Each offering is read gently, and the ones that fit will find their light here.

Ways We Remember poster: twelve small rituals for honouring someone you love, including lighting a candle, saying their name, cooking their food and writing to them.