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The Long Goodbye: A Memoir

by Meghan O'Rourke

A memoir of the long, unsteady aftermath of losing her mother to cancer. O'Rourke, a poet and critic, writes about the slow-burning shape of grief over months and years, the way it returns, shifts, and teaches you who you are without the person you loved.

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